Imagine finding the one who truly fills that ever widening void.   Someone who you can develop an emotional,  physical and intellectual connection with as well ad those butterflies that have been gone for so long.  Your rock who gets you and cares. We've both been looking for that person for a while so now's the time to take a chance on that long term mutli-facteted connection. 

Me:  Down to earth, genuine, intelligent, respectful, positive and fun with a dryish/sarcastic sense of humor.   I'm a hard worker, quite engaging, charming, and affectionate with the right connection.    Taking care of myself is important to me- I'm often told I look ten years younger- but will let you decide.   Physically, I'm 5’10, blue eyes , athletic build with dark brown hair with some grey and bearded.  I lead an active, and healthy lifestyle but I'm not over the top about it.

My friends would say I have an adventurous spirit.  I love spending time with my kids, friends, and dog; discovering new restaurants; traveling; music (broad range); and reading.  I'm also an avid cyclist/ road biker and DIY-er.  I have experience with this so understand/ respect boundaries and expect the same.  My opsec is very secure.  I travel often for work so being away from home is common and expected.

You: Open-minded, intelligent, fun, affectionate,  sensual,  and have a great sense of humor.  Physical attraction is obviously important and subjective for both of us.   I appreciate women who lead an  active/ healthy lifestyle and take care of themselves. Solid opsec is a must.  What matters most is our chemistry-on multiple levels.

I'm looking for a strong connection,  great communication,  mutual respect and a high level of trust. Open to city or burbs,  or even someone who travels here frequently.  The connection is more important than the location however I'm not interested in LD.

I'm looking for women only and in person when we're comfortable--not interested in anything online.  I will not respond to low effort messages.

My motto is life is short.  If the above touches you in any way, message me and let's start making the most of it.