Hey there, fella. Welcome to a brand new subreddit for men to be men with men. In-person community is hard to come by these days, and lots of us guys (gay, bi, pan, straight, all body types and races) tend toward independence, self-reliance and self-isolation even as we crave connection, vulnerability, and community.

What's stopping us from going out there and making it happen in this big, beautiful world?

This sub can become anything we imagine, but here are some serving suggestions...

Gaymer looking for a rowdy session of nude World of Warcraft? Make it happen, brodie.

Tired of community spaces for queer men dying out? Organize a guerilla gathering at a coffeehouse or a guerilla dance night anywhere your boys are willing to show up. If you don't have a boy posse, maybe yours is just waiting for your initiative.

Is your brain restless to, say, read a whole book -- but you'd be more motivated if you knew you were getting together with buddies to talk about it over beers (like men in almost every century of history)? Live that dream!

Looking to let that penis out to play? Maybe you'd love more than your own company but you're bored to death of endless, mindless thirst-scrolling? Get some bros over for whatever flavor of IRL man-on-man-on-man you can curate. Find out what turns you on with other people. Discover the joy of eating ass! You do you, hermano!

Let's be honest: the majority of these posts are probably gonna be about that last category. Cool! No judgment. Get it on, you horny fuckers.

AND.

Don't forget there are infinite constellations of ways we men were made for each other:

Talk about your feelings. Hold a dude while he's crying. Listen to someone's life story, because no man has ever done that for him before. Cuddle, because it's rainy and you're more lonely than you are horny and fuck it, you've always wanted to. Make real friends, because they might just outlast all the careers, hookups, boyfriends, girlfriends, spouses and kids you ever have.

An "event" can be as simple as three dudes talking about what's actually on their hearts.