Suggestion for books on building a secure attachment with self/being alone, being independent

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Hi there,

I'm looking for books about cultivating your own life outside of a romantic partner. Becoming self sufficient, not codependent romantically, self trust, self reliant.

I really struggle with wanting to always be close to a partner and live my life surrounding them and their friends and community and hobbies.

I'm an only child and struggle being alone (and struggle reaching out to friends) . I'm seeking a book on cultivating a secure attachment with myself, being okay being alone.

If you've read Polysecure (chapter 9 specifically) I'm looking for a book that expands on that

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