He’s made it abundantly clear that he’s not gonna feel sorry for the fact that they have such a huge age gap, and she’s made it clear that she doesn’t feel manipulated by him and wants people to stop calling her a victim (even though she may truly be getting manipulated by him, as Boogie is still Boogie at the end of the day, regardless of how old his partner is).

We’ve already pointed out how Boogie is an untrustworthy person, and she’s both heard us say that and seen it firsthand. At this point, all we’re doing is making Desi feel condescended towards when people keep calling her a child when she’s legally old enough to buy a house and a beer if she wanted to. There’s other ways to call out Boogie that don’t involve insulting Desi just for being young, which is something that she can’t control. If she wants to leave him, that’s her responsibility to do, not for us to keep calling her a child bride until she gets fed up and leaves him because of that, rather than because he’s just a generally scummy dude who she shouldn’t have to put up with. She should leave because she sincerely wants to because he’s not being a good SO to her, not just because of their age gap or because she’s tired of being infantilized by the public.