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People won’t speak to me first in a group of girls
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Often times when I (f) am with a group of girls, others- especially men- won’t speak to me at all when first meeting or sometimes not even look my way unless I insert myself in the conversation. After the first meeting, people will approach me openly or have even asked for my number so I am honestly confused.

Any thoughts on why this is or how I can limit this behavior?

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Change your demeanor chica. I know people who are very similar. I happen to be very outgoing so I TRY with those people.

Since nobody else mentioned it, I will - this sounds crass rude and mean (trigger warned!) but, are you really unattractive?

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Start by turning the ends of your mouth upward - maintain a resting SMILE… not an RBF. Know what I mean?

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