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Hi everyone! Just wanted an answer about something. I’ve been going to this gym for the last couple years since I graduated college. I’m 25 (M) who goes to a gym w/ a young professional crowd. I can’t help but notice that I get a lot of looks. (No im not looking for self gratification). But as a former college football player I am pretty fit. I workout now because it’s part of my daily routine and mental health maintenance. I don’t do any insane workouts at all or throw my weights around. Long story short I’m extremely respectful and have great gym Etiquette
There’s this group of girls that always stare at me and clearly are talking about me based of subtle eye contact we make. The group isn’t bad looking by any means. I can appreciate people based on looks. They tend to almost “follow me” during workouts. Could be a similar split but I digress. I’m very stoic in the gym. Head down, music blasting (Anita Baker) and don’t talk to anyone unless approached by some guys sometimes who know my story. I really don’t want to assume these women are interested because I don’t have that main character syndrome. Just a really nice guy. From a girls perspective, am I being too much? I should also preface by saying I have a girlfriend of 3 years who I hold dear to my heart and has encouraged her to maybe join me at my gym once in a while instead of hers. The staring makes me very self aware and uncomfortable sometimes. Just wondering if I should chill or take any action on this? Thanks, any advice would be amazing! Have a great day!!
Does it really matter if they're attracted to you if you're already in a relationship dude?
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