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My parents have been divorced for many years now, I am okay with them having boyfriends/girlfriends since Iām āusedā to it by now. Unfortunately though, my father (M/45) is getting remarried to a woman (F/35)whom he has been seeing for 2 years, and who has done absolutely nothing to get to know my younger brother and I. She rarely talks to us (she lives with us). I confronted my dad and explained how I do not support his marriage with this woman, and he basically blamed her absence in my life on me because I ādonāt come out of my roomāā¦ when in truth, even when I do come out of my room she still ignores me. I just find it all odd. My dad isnāt the romantic type, he says that theyāre getting married because itās Godās will. I simply cannot wrap my head around this. What am I supposed to do? Accept and act like everything is okay when in truth it is absolutely not? Iām stuck! Please help before I go insane!!!
We are a blended family. My oldest daughter did not have a good relationship with my new wife for a lot of the same reasons. Daughter would not spend much time out of her room and when she did it was to talk to me and treated my wife like a stranger. My wife always felt awkward and judged by my daughter. They never really addressed it. My daughter is now in the process of moving across the country and the best/worst thing she said during her last visit was confessing to my wife that she thought she was a good mom and that she (daughter) should have told her sooner. They had a good cry and have been texting more. Donāt leave it just to her to reach out. Itās awkward for adults too. Find common ground and at least try to be supportive. If things donāt work, at least you know you tried. Sorry you are going through this.
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