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Would it be wrong of me to surprise my wife with taking her here? Sheās sexually repressed and not extremely confident with her looks after having kids. (This is not how I feel about her it is her words)
But I figure coming here sheād be able see others openly expressing themselves and obviously being nude is not a requirement. So I was wondering if anyone here was/is in the same position and gather your thoughts on it.
- She does not know I have a reddit.
- I will not share pictures of her.
- I donāt want to show up to the beach and have her immediately get angry or insecure
If sheās feeling this way what I honestly suggest instead of surprising her have a conversation whit her tell here that you heard about this beautiful place you heard of that if clothing optional and that you would like to take her and show her off because you love her an love every inch of her body. Make something delicious that you know she loves eating along whit a couple of drink and surprise her not only whit a trip to the beach so she can find her beauty and love for her self but to show her that you still lover her no matter what and that her giving you those amazing kids itās the most amazing and beautiful thing she did as your wife and that you are truly great full to have her whit you every day. It breaks my heart to know that so many women feel like this because they forget that they are the most beautiful and perfect thing god and the world has created Iām trans and I always say I can do so many things to look amazing but I will never never be at the level of a biological female because thanks to them I get to have this amazing and incredible life and thanks to them the world keeps on going. But I also know that itās up to the husband to remind them of how incredible they are and always will be because many man forget that they work get to clock out and relax when a women unfortunately never gets to clock out because they are always taking care of kid, husband, other family problems, the house, and making sure every one is good before them. Show your wife how much she means to you even if you donāt take her here make her get beautiful take her on a date night and make her feel like when you guys were dating that amazing sex and spontaneous sex in crazy š places trust me a women always misses that and how they would be love like they were the last and most amazing thing in this life and world.
Oh wow dam see thatās what I have never understood about women and I know Iām probably going to get a lot of crap for saying this but Dam how come they can never be happy when a guys gives them everything ? You ladyās want to hook up whit other guys but get so hurt when your guy does that same thing. See I can honestly tell you this Iām trans (M-F) I been married for 14 yrs now and even before he ask me to be his girl I told him and was honest whit him I said look I might look like a women and live my life like one but biologically Iām male and I can offer you š±as I donāt have one. But that does not mean thereās other ways that we can work around that so if you want me to be your lady you have to agree to have an open relationship whit me I will let you hook up whit any female you like as long as you respect and honor my boundaries
always wear a condom make sure that you take care of ur self that way you take care of me and donāt bring nothing back home to me.
if it get really hot and you go raw let me know that way you can get tested and then we can go back to us.
communication is key. If you ever have a fantasy that you want us to fulfill let me know Iām open.
honesty goes a long way as I believe that no matter how much you try to cover a lie it will always come to light so I will rather hear it from you then find out and end everything as I donāt tolerate lies because your basically calling me and thinking Iām stupid and that for me is the most disrespectful thing in the world.
What you should do is sit whit her and ask her what she really wants to do whit the relationship that both of you have. Because it sounds like she has some one else thatās filling her cups and there might not be a way back not even a trip to the beach would help that. If sheās not happy and so are you go each others way and end up doing it mutually and respectfully as you always want each other as friends and co parents so that your kids can grow up happy and whit the most minimal mental pain as possible. After all she might not be interested in being your wife any more but she will always be the mother to your kids, your love and the amazing women that gave you some amazing yrs of her life. Donāt wait cuz time is a B*** and does not wait for any one this life is to short enjoy it to the fullest and right now that your able to have movement and strength to do them remember at the end of our lifeās we want to cry tears of gratefulness, happiness and that you got to do and see everything you wanted and not remorse or sadness that you did not get to do what you dream off.
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You mean it feels like she has forgotten who she was when you guys started dating ?