First you have to make your boundaries and your limits clear. As a dom first I need to you to trust me, that I'll respect your limits, stay within your boundaries, and that you'll be safe in my control. Only then can you reveal yourself fully to me, and you are going to reveal yourself fully. I'm going to know your deepest fantasies, desires in the dark corners of your heart that you wouldn't dare admit to a soul. You are going to open yourself, and put yourself completely at my mercy.

I'll need leverage over you, that'll be pictures, and information. I'm going to make sure that you have the risk of exposure and humiliation, the ruin of everything you've hoped your life would be, hanging over your head.

You'll be begging for my mercy, but I won't give it to you. I'll watch you suffer and struggle and I'll love it. Just remember that I'm in control, and you're nothing but my puppet. But you'll still love it. You'll love the thrill of it, of knowing that you are completely at my mercy. You'll love knowing that I can ruin your life, but that I won't. You'll love the freedom of not having to worry about it, because it's not in your control any way. All you can do it follow my instructions, and complete your tasks, and pray to God that that's enough.

I also want you to understand that I'm looking for something long term, I want to know you, I want to understand you, and then I want to own you. All that said, you can withdraw your consent anytime you feel the need to for whatever reason, and I'll stop the blackmail, and delete any thing I have over you. That's the one thing, that's going to be in your control, the ability to pull the plug at any time.

So, Are you ready to be blackmailed the way you know you desire?