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Can yāall help me make sense of a situation I keep finding myself in?
Thereās a white guy at my job. About 3 in shorter than me and 4 years younger. After attending one work happy hour together, I think he likes me.
He kept hovering around me and talking ideas at me. He kept saying that he loves socializing at work and - at one point - complained that our other coworkers donāt drink and hang as much as heād like us all to. He ādoesnāt believeā in working from home. He celebrates the shitty corrupt local politicians in my city, saying that they are ātrying their bestā. He tries to play Devilās advocate.
I am the complete opposite, and itās obvious in my presentation: I am more masculine in appearance, unambiguously Black, shaved head, socialist/communist, feminist, blah blah blah.
Toward the end of the night, he asked for my number, saying we should āhang out outside of work.ā I gave it to him, idk why. 30 minutes later, he tells me heās in love with his girlfriend. Then he offers to walk me halfway home (I decline).
I plan to avoid him, so Iām not asking for advice on what to do. I guess Iām just asking like why do WM do this? I tend to have these types of interactions with WM: we are politically and socially opposite, they donāt seem to date or be interested in BW, but something about me excites them and they want to get close to me. They donāt want the night to end. They want to keep talking. What do yall make of this? Does this happen to yall?
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