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I just started dating and consider myself pretty politically moderate/apathetic. However I'm a Black and Latina woman born and raised in the SF Bay Area, so I recognize that I lean left politically and it resulted in major falling apart of my 16yr marriage to my HS sweetheart (turned Trumper).
Anyway somehow - unbeknownst to me the first 2 guys I end up seeing post-marriage both end up being fairly conservative white guys.
I'm like WTF? How does this keep happening? Is this a trend or something? The demographics here in the bay area far more Democrat than Republican, but somehow these conservative white guys keep finding me.
I'm wracking my brain going - are they overcompensating? Trying to prove they're not racist by dating Black women? 🤔 Anyone else notice this?
I removed all their comments. Men are welcome here as long as they don't talk over women which he definitely did
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I just want to make it clear that some males are welcome here, especially trans women. I didn't know if you meant men or males and wanted to be sure