I’m sorry but I cannot stand to see other black women, ESPECIALLY other dark skin black women lusts after white men so unashamed. I get being hurt by black men, trust me, me of all people I understand. I’ve never felt that pressure from the greater black community to only date just black men, and with all of my dating experiences, I can say that the behaviours those black men showed were not exclusive to them, they were exclusive to men with the same family dynamics and toxic masculinity.

I’m turned off by pasta and lobster comments because it’s actually embarrassing to watch and read, watching hundreds of black girls comment on a white boy’s post “pasta and lobster 🥺?” Is EMBARRASSING. Second to that, no one is coming to save you. No white man is going to be HAPPY about the fact that they’re being used essentially as a status symbol and a paycheck. Also, leaving your houses with those crazy looking wigs the trend users have convinced themselves bring black women a wealthy white man, did you ever think your self esteem and attitudes towards relationships are why you don’t have a wealthy white man? Let alone a man period lol

Anyway I wanted to know everyone else’s thoughts!