So I have dated men my whole adult life. But I have always found an attraction to women. The reason why I never pursued is because I was always in a relationship with a man who would probably pressure me into a threesome. That's not something I want. If I wanted a relationship with a woman, I would want it to be just the two of us. No man to please. I guess you can say I am not really out of the closet. I think my siblings know from tiktoks I post, but I haven't said anything to my family because as far as I am concerned, I don't need to tell them anything until I actually have a girlfriend.

I have gone on bumble, hinge, and facebook dating. I match with women, but then they unmatch with me. But when I do finally find a woman who wants to go on a date with me, I am just so confused how to explain that I am new to dating women in my 30's. Also not sure if I should try Taimie.