So, I'll explain the situation I found myself in today so that you can be as helpful as possible in giving me advice. more or less since my sister turned 14 she came out (she was braver than me.) saying she was attracted to women. during these years she was engaged, she introduced us to her girlfriends with whom she was together etc... over the years I discovered that my sister was hiding a sex toy in her room but I never told her anything about. But today, while I was cleaning the room, I found some condoms in the drawer... now I don't know how to handle it, (I'm not shocked about it don't get me wrong) but I would like to help her, give her my support by making her understand that anything is fine, if she's okay. discovering other things is fine. but I don't know whether to address the topic or wait for her to talk about it... I don't know maybe because I know how it feels to be confused and I would like to help her, but I'm afraid that she might shut down... what do you recommend? ps. if you can help, my sister is 17 now.