I'm a man who has been married for 10 years to a woman , ultimately it just didn't work out I have for a long time feared her finding out about my bisexual side. Well it happened and she couldn't live with it. I never cheated and remained faithful. My wife ultimately found porn on our computer and the secret was out. I feel terrible about not coming out sooner but I knew she wouldn't understand.

My question is how do I go about meeting guys. It's been far to long since I've been with one and it's all I can think about. I just want a guy who understands it's been awhile for me. Have any guys ever been in my situation. How did it turn out for you? I guess I don't really know how to live my life with a man. I know I'm no longer attracted to women but I don't understand how after being married for so long to turn the corner and find a guy like myself