Two of the friends that don't know are my friends from my time in the army. I don't think they will "care" but at the same time i worry that they will treat me different..

I'm happily married and not looking for a relationship outside that. My parents don't know and i Can't for the life of me see a good reason to tell them. The only reason I see telling them is if I were to get involved in a same sex realtionship. it would simply be " Mom, Dad meet my boyfriend". If they don't accept it ... thats their deal. This is all hypothetical at this point of course .

I mean it felt good to give myself that freedom to be honest with myself and my wife now .. its like "Why does anyone else really need to know"