After having some self realizations and talking my emotions and thoughts out with my fiancee, I have realized that I am bisexual. Doing this has rid me of any shame that I had about my desires and fantasies. My fiancee has been nothing but supportive, but I feared what my friends would think as most of them are straight and more conservative. It had already slipped once over drinks that I have placed stuff up my butt, but I told them it was just curiosity over the prostate and us experimenting in the bedroom. Last night with some of my closest college friends, once again over drinks, I came out. My best friend was quite surprised as the thought had never crossed his mind, but was cool about it and said it changes nothing. My female friend said, "I could see that, you kinda give off some bi vibes" which confused me greatly as I had no idea myself until recently and my other friend assumed it after I talked to him in private almost a year ago when I talked about my pegging kink with him. I don't want to go around parading my newfound discovery to all of my friends, but fuck does it feel good to get off my chest.