I’ve never told a single person about my bisexuality. I’m relatively masculine presenting but probably less so in some ways, enough that an ex girlfriend once told me she thought I was gay and a girl on a date asked me the same thing… I guess not being a total brute in a small southern town is enough to raise suspicions about your sexual orientation. Been hit on by a couple guys over the years as well, something about me registers on a sensitive enough gaydar.

So I’ve always wondered, if I came out today as a bisexual man, how many people in my life would not be totally shocked? I’m betting a lot of people probably wouldn’t be too caught off guard about me. Any of you guys who are keeping it in the closet feel this too?