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I am a single bisexual male who has always been shy, quiet, and introverted. In addition, I have long struggled with anxiety, depression, and low self-esteem. My sexual experiences with women have been extremely (and embarrassingly) limited. I have been told by friends and others that I am an attractive looking guy. For years, I have fantasized about and wanted to experience threesomes, both MMM and MMF. The closest I have ever ventured to such experiences have been through watching porn. I have pursued various avenues to try to make threesomes happen, including going online and venturing to a sex club. But sadly, I have never have had any luck. For me, such erotic encounters seem to be elusive things to enjoy. What can I do to change this?
OP, I would like to share my experience from the other side of the threesome.
When it became apparent that having full transparency with my bisexual side would really need to be a part of our marriage, my wife and I agreed that we would pursue MMF threesomes.
We were surprised by the volume of men on Grindr and Sniffies, who, while they may come across as looking for dick, they were looking for a connection in a regular threesome.
What we have later discovered is that the friendship and relationship has to come first for an enduring threesome. We have a balance of friendship just as much so as we do with the sex.
So I would ask, how are you engendering a relationship with a couple and not just looking for the action?
Clearly, this is easier said than done. Good luck!
MMF threesomes are absolutely amazing. They are even better when the other partners are fully committed.
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I can certainly appreciate the perspective you have. We wish you the best as you move forward. But I can tell you is that you can’t wait for anything to happen, you gotta keep persistent.