Hey everyone. So for some quick background, I’m M 35 and my wife is F 30. We’ve been together for almost ten years, with a few hiccups here and there. Anyway. About 2 years ago or so, I came out as bi to her. Not because I was hiding it or anything, because it’s something I had discovered along the way. So we were taking a few days ago about fantasies and things we’d like to do, and I mentioned how I’d love to have a Bi-threesome (both ways since she’s Pan). She agreed and said it would be fun, just gotta find the right guy for the MMF version. So fast forward I start talking to her a little about it again yesterday and she admitted that it wasn’t something she was ready for. Which I said was fine, no problem. We talked a little more and got down to something important. She’s Pan, so she’s attracted to women as well but she said me being bi is something different. As I’ve began getting more comfortable with this and sharing things with her, she admitted that it makes her uncomfortable. And when I say things, I mean things like what type of guys I’m attracted to, fantasies, and things like that. When I asked her why, and what the difference was between me telling her these things and her telling me the same things about her and women, she said it’s something she’s got to work on. She was raised in a way that makes it ok for women to be with other women, that it was hot and acceptable, but the idea of a guy with another guy is wrong. She said she supports people who practice this lifestyle, even guys with other guys, but when it comes to the person she is with, she sees it as wrong. Even though she is attracted to women, and sees that as perfectly fine. So. She is in therapy already for other issues (depression, anxiety, etc) and she recognizes how this way of thinking is wrong. She admits she has to work through it and it’s going to take time. Which is fine. My question is, how can I support her through this and make things easier for her? Any advice is welcome! I just want to ensure I don’t push too hard or something and support her while she works through these issues!