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So I'm 39F, and have been in a relationship with my bf (39M) for 7 years. We are monogamous, and have no desire not to be.
However, I can't shake the feeling that I might be slightly bisexual? haha. When I say slightly, I mean that 93% of the time I'm attracted to men, and like 7% of the time I'm attracted to women.
So, like, does that even count? I've never claimed to be or told anyone that I was bi. As silly as it sounds, my brain was always like "oh if you're bisexual then you like women 50% and men 50%" even though I realize now how ridiculous that sounds.
I don't even know if I'm looking for advice here, or what. I guess where I'm at is like: - Is it even worth ""coming out"" to anyone for that 7% - Is it even worth mentioning because my bf and I are in a committed relationship, with no intention to change, so like who cares if I'm attracted to a female every once in a long while
Has anyone else been in a similar boat?
Neither monogamy nor a heterosexual relationship are disqualifying factors. It's not like operating a crane or running a network where some kind of routine certification is required to keep your title though that does make for a kinky plot hook.
As for coming out (in general) I don't think there's a need. To your boyfriend? Sure if you want to. We always hope things go well but assuming there's the worst happens and in the aftermath you date a woman the idea of having 'turned you off men' may be salting the wound unduly.
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