I have been having overwhelming desire for men. I am a 44 married to a beautiful woman for 20 years. We have 3 kids. I have been trying to get my wife to help me with my sexual needs and it has not been going well recently. I want to talk to her about it but when I show any level of doubt or dissatisfaction with our sex life she gets very insecure and hurt. It puts me in such a difficult position. If I was straight I would be more than happy. As a bisexual I’m not. I don’t feel supported, I don’t feel reciprocated. She says why don’t you just take care of your needs on your own. Which does work fine but it doesn’t feel like a partnership. She complains that I just see her as a hole to fuck. Which is completely the opposite. I am doing everything I can to incorporate her into my sexual play so that she is not just a hole to fuck when I need that. Weeks like this I wish I could just turn off being Bi. Like Superman turning in his powers for the one he loves.

Please help. Am I doing this wrong?