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How to explain I don’t want to objectify women all the freakin’ time?
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So I recently came out to my husband after 20 years and he has been very supportive, agreeing to open up our marriage to allow me to sleep with women. We don’t sleep together any way because he isn’t interested any more. However, the problem I now have is he keeps talking to me about them like I am one of the lads down the pub. We went to the theatre last night and he asked me “did you see the rack on that barmaid? I bet you couldn’t take your eyes off?” He asks me “would you do it with her?” When we’re watching TV. I appear to have gone from being his wife to your average bloke. I’m very aware of the fact that he’s doing most of the bending here and I’m effectively asking for his permission to cheat, but is that a normal response in this situation? Is this how most men react?

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He's trying to figure out how to negotiate the new situation. Give it time. Please.

Is this how most men—

If you have to ask the answer is no

Normal

Up to the individual.

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