I’m currently in the very early stages of exploring my bisexuality. I’m in an ENM marriage, and recently have had a few threesomes with another couple that I’m very comfortable with. I didn’t specifically seek out those experiences, and didn’t really expect to enjoy them as much as I did either.

I’m interested in exploring that same dynamic with other couples, but there are so many couples looking for the very few women like me, that it actually seems overwhelming trying to find the right couple for me.

Do any other bi women on here have experience finding couples on apps? Do you have any advice on how to either avoid or sort through the overwhelming number of “offers” as soon as you indicate you are interested in couples? And more importantly, are there any red flags I can look out for that will tip me off sooner that a couple may not be what they seem? It seems that most of the couples that I was interested in initially end up being situations where the wife never was interested or may not even be aware, or the wife seems to be just going along with it too make her husband happy rather than the two of them being genuinely interested.