I (F22) found myself drawn to a trend known as the "goth mommy" or thick/busty alt-girl aesthetic, which initially didn't capture my attention. However, after striking up a conversation with a girl at a local coffee shop, my perception took a sudden shift when she decided to cut her hair short. The transformation intrigued me, and I eagerly agreed to hang out with her after her shift. During our conversation, she opened up about her feelings and expressed a fascination with the idea of a relationship between two opposites. While planning our upcoming date, we've been building anticipation by exchanging messages and pictures, adding an exciting layer to our connection.