hi im a 21F bisexual dating a 21M heterosexual for over a year now. he’s always been weary of the stereotype that one day i’ll just wake up and decide i want to be with a girl, and i’ve always denied that and said thats not true bc i love him. well… i’ve been thinking about being with girls a lot more recently and have been thinking about breaking up for a bit. i feel like i’ve just lost attraction to him. sex seems like a chore! i got this same way with towards the end of my relationship with my ex gf, which is why i broke up with her so i could start being with men again.

does anyone else get this way? where they’re with one gender but realize they miss the other? i feel so guilty about it and never would want to admit it to him. it makes me worry i’ll never be happy with just one person for the rest of my life, but thats all i want!!!! i am not going to consider an open relationship or threesome lol i am a very monogamous person