Two nights ago, I (32F) had a dream about one of my friends (33F) where we made out pretty heavily and touched each other sexually. I really enjoyed it in the dream, but when I woke up I was a little concerned and self-conscious.

We are both in committed relationships with men. My relationship is open though. Hers is not. She has mentioned before that she’d always fantasized about making out with a girl and her boyfriend knows that (and I think maybe not opposed if it’s just making out).

I’ve never felt that energy between us though and honestly I prefer it not to go there, although I’d be lying if I said I hadn’t thought about it. Also, at one point my man had a crush on her and the thought of them together turned me on as well as the thought of a threesome. But it’s like, super hot when I fantasize about it in my head and masturbate, but I’d never actually want that.

I’ve decided it’s best not tell her, at least for now, because I feel like it would complicate things. But it’ll be my little secret and I’m okay with that.

I just wanted to know if anyone else has had a similar experience or has any helpful comments.

Thanks!