So, I’ve come out multiple times to multiple people, except my soon to be ex husband and anything that might get back to him because I am worried he will use it against me in the divorce and the fact that we have many kids etc. (can he do that?)

Well, here’s the actual rant. Why. Do. I. Constantly. Keep. Having. To. Keep. Coming. Out? To the SAME PEOPLE for goodness sake!! Also, made the “mistake “ (not MY words) by calling myself queer. My own mother went all crazy on me. “You can call yourself Bi, but the /queer/ thing?…” OMG, WHAT?! 😳 seriously!?

Sorry for spilling here but I’m just really upset right now. I mean, labels aren’t necessary all the time, but this time I just called myself the “friendly family queer” and she’s like “no you aren’t!”

Sigh.