Well, I know I have posted before, but it’s been little here and little there. But, with the exception of my soon to be ex, I am out to everyone and everyone is quite chill (I kinda thought they would be). I basically said it conversationally one day. My parents know, a couple of my friends know, other family knows and now I really want to post here to this “family” because I’m pretty proud of myself for finally ripping off the bandaid. I’m kinda keeping from my estranged ex because they still live here (yeah, why? Right?) because I’m afraid he will somehow use it against me during the divorce. There is a law against that, right? I am working diligently in getting my portion of the divorce process accomplished. That had nothing to do with my sexuality.

I’m sad that I missed ALL of the Pride events this year that happened this summer, but hey, there is always a next year. That had nothing to do with my sexuality. The missing of the pride events was sad, because I looked forward to at least one of them, but things got in the way. 🥺

To be frank, when it came down to it, I just had to be HONEST with myself about my bisexuality. It’s funny how memories of what I now realize was attraction felt like. I always had something else to explain it away when I was growing up.

Ahhh, weight off my shoulders. Another funny, I think it didn’t come as a shock to anyone. We are very open here and I don’t think they care one way or the other. Over the past couple months I’ve been embracing our flag (because it makes me feel valid!) and have my pin proudly on my bag and a bisexual colored banded ring proudly on my hand with the pink/purple/blue stripes.

That is basically that. I am excited to be me and now I guess it’s on to making some fresh lemon bars!! 💖💜💙