So a while ago I came out as bi sexual to my now almost 8 year boyfriend. At first he was a little weary. I have tons of bi friends and he’s only 4 years older but the difference in our friend groups in huge. So I think at first he thought I was just full blown gay but. After we talked he was open to me going on dates and finding a girlfriend and he wasn’t really pressing about being involved. I noticed that just dating another girl wasn’t doing it for me though. We would kiss and I didn’t really feel much or anything. But when my man came to pick me up and she came out and gave me a kiss goodbye in front of him, then I felt something. It might be the fact I know he can see and I know he likes watching. I realize I think it’s cause I’m like teasing him. He doesn’t always know if the girl I’m with is open to guys or not which is fun yet boring too. I started strictly looking for bi thirds and when I went out on dates I started bringing him. I realized it was his energy I was missing. And when our date see how we vibe as a couple they feel more comfortable.

I had a few good dates this week and felt like sharing my mind.