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Question about bisexual spectrum
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Hey all. I am at the stage of being bi-curious and would like to ask for advice. So, for context, iā€™m 26F and have had crushes on guys in the past. Iā€™ve had super close platonic friendships with guys too and all my female friendships have been platonic. I grew up conservative and religious and assumed only heterosexual relationships were ā€œnormalā€ and anything that deviated from that and monogamy was not right. Of course, now my perception of this is different and looking back i realized i have a physical attraction towards females. I have those such fantasies and am keen to explore where i can. This makes me think, okay, so physically, i can be attracted to females. But emotionally, or romantically? I have had super close friendships with women but weā€™ve ever only been friends (i also donā€™t have any physical attraction to any of my female friends). Iā€™ve never had that spark with any woman, and iā€™ve little experience with men too (as in usually my crushes never liked me back). If i physically can be attracted to females but i canā€™t develop a romantic feelings with females, am i not allowed to call myself bisexual? Is there a spectrum or does being bisexual have to include romantic feelings?

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