I see this everywhere. I have an account on a kink-based social media and unfortunately as a bi woman I get tons of messages from couples looking for a third. I know this happens on dating apps as well so others in this community have probably experienced this as well. I also follow a kink sub for the state I live in and it’s initially meant for people to talk about their lifestyle with fellow kinksters and maybe they could meet up but lately it has been dominated by couples looking for a third. I ended up leaving the sub because it was almost every post 🙃

I’m just wondering what everyone’s opinions on these kind of couples is or if you’ve experienced being reached out to yourself? Or why so many heterosexual couples do this? And the annoying thing is that the woman (who is usually the bi one in this situation) says that she wants to do things “in front of her man” so he can get off. It seems to me that this is really for him and not for her and he gets the most pleasure out of the situation by living some straight male fantasy 🙄 It’s like he’s taking advantage of his partner’s sexuality, along with their “third”, for himself….