Hey all, thanks so much for taking the time to read this. I feel like I cannot be the only one to have encountered this before, so I really appreciate your perspectives. I'm 28 years on old openly bi since around 10 years. But I'm also in a (actually pretty happy) hetero relationship for almost 7 years. So for most of the time I accepted myself as bi I was actually in a hetero relationship. Now, I'm not unhappy with my current relationship but the more "traditional life plans" (e.g. having kids or thinking about marriage) become more reasonable and realistic to me, the more I feel disconnected from my queer side. Not because I "want" to be queer or crave for homosexual experiences (I mean I kinda do, but that's not the point), but rather because I feel I would betray a part of myself. I guess I haven't really figured out if I can commit myself romantically to one gender long-term. This may sound confused and I'm sure I am. But if you have experienced something similar yourself or have any perspective to share, I'd love to hear it. (feel free to send me a DM or start a chat :) happy to talk you!)

Thanks again for reading and wish you all a happy weekend!