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28F in an exclusive hetero relationship. My bf of 4 years agreed to let me/us explore women after some questions about my sexuality last year. Kind of tabled it until I met a great girl on an app. We all vibe sooo well together and are very comfortable (we hung out with her a couple times before getting into bed). However now I’m struggling with some anxiety about making sure my bf is okay and wondering if asking to explore solo once or twice would be ok too. Wondering how other couples have handled these boundaries before. We had an amazing threesome with the woman (first time was PG-13) and all agreed to def do it again after. I’m very eager and find myself fantasizing about it, especially because my libido had been rather though the last few years. Adding a third def spiced it up and since then, our sex has been great! However, with covid and her being monogamish, we may only see her a handful of times before we move. I guess I’m looking to get tips from others about ways in which they manage their partner’s feelings (and I guess the 3rd), but also pursue parts of them they know are hidden. It’s exciting but scary to act on!
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