Just saw a post from about a month ago addressing this topic and wanted to share my thoughts.

I'm currently (back) in a phase of my bisexuality where I notice mostly women and the attraction/fascination can happen instantaneously, entirely based on looks, without knowing their personality. Whereas with men, though on the rare occasion I do notice an attractive man the way I would an attractive woman, for most men I'm demisexual, meaning I have to get to know them first, and if their "vibe" (no other way to describe it) clicks with me, then the sexual/romantic sparks fly. So it's all a little confusing because it's not immediately apparent that I'm attracted to men, so that makes me feel like a lesbian, but I'm not satisfied with that label, because in the back of my mind I know that I love being intimate and sexual with men, if you know, the vibe is right and all.

Can anyone relate?! Would you just call this having a preference or.....

I sometimes jokingly refer to myself as a VIBE-sexual because sometimes I just feel a certain pull/attraction towards people – of any gender – and it's entirely based on their aura/vibe hahaha...