Both are fascinating to me! I'd love to hear both from you- age, time elapsed between, details... please share.

When I was about 13-14 I was going through a sexual awakening. Masturbating, searching for porno, reading naughty literature, finding dirty pen pals on the internet, you know. I found myself gravitating a LOT towards lesbian porn/stories (I am a girl), which was confusing to me because I knew I wasn't a lesbian. I had crushes on boys, I liked reading naughty stories about boys and girls, I thought boys were handsome and sexy. For whatever reason this actually tore me up inside, and I was thinking about it constantly for a few months. I know I'm not a lesbian, so what am I?

One day out of the blue it just hit me. I remember it was a mundane trip to the grocery store with my mom. I was looking out of the car window and suddenly, eureka! I am bisexual, that's what I am!

A short time later, maybe a few weeks or months, I came out to my best friend. We were sitting on the couch watching a movie and talking, and I just came out with it. I told her I thought I was bisexual and she just smiled at me and said "I know." That was amazing- she knew and she didn't care. I guess I wasn't stealthy about who I had a crush on!

Shortly after that I told my family... and everyone else. My family was mildly disapproving but I didn't care- and since then they have been more accepting as the world changes. All of my friends have been totally accepting of this fact. I'm one of the lucky ones, I know.