Hey,

I [M, early 20s] don't really know how to explain it, but I've never really felt attracted to anyone in real life. I've never really felt the lengendary horniness of teen years (Watched porn at maybe 15, went "further" alone at 17). I do find some people attractive online and IRL, but that's about it, I don't feel any "crushes" on them, or any attraction in any way.

I don't think I'm asexual or aromantic since I want to experience both those things. I suspect that it could come from low self esteem I've had during teen years, especially since I do find more people cute since it went up a bit.

Anyone in that situation? How do I work on it in order to put myself "out there"?

Pardon my sometimes average english, and thanks for reading me!