For me, my ideal relationship would fall into one of the following categories:

Monogamy with a woman and just talk about guys.

Mostly closed relationship with a gay guy and straight girl, or a girlfriend with a guy FWB.

My major roadblock is that I cannot read attraction from people at all. I've been making out with girls who were topless, their hand down my pants, and I wasn't sure if they were interested. I also need to have people point out to me when guys do hit on me, though they are slightly easier to read.

Socializing with people in any other circumstance is no problem for me, only dating/attraction socializing doesn't exist in my social awareness. Needless to say, it's led to a lot of missed opportunities in hindsight.