I don't know if this is allowed in here or not. I'd like to share first time same sex intimate moments. Was it a friend? Hookup?

Mine was a hookup. I wanted to remain discreet and anonymous. I went to craigslist and perused the m2m ads and responded to a few. I either didn't get any response or if we agreed to meet, they would ghost. So I finally posted my own ad. I was honest in what I was looking for. Let a nice guy and we exchanged a few emails. I went to his place and he took the lead but wasn't bossy or domineering. He made it very easy to move to the next step. We did as we discussed in our email and I loved every moment of it.

Afterwards I did feel a little self conscious. Once the hormones and release subsided I was still a little confused. After a few hours though. I felt good that I went through with it. I could admit that I enjoyed it. It was different. With women I always take the lead and initiate. This time I allowed him to take the lead and initiate and I liked it that way. And that's still the way I like it.

What was your first time with the same sex like?