This is just a bit of a yap sesh.

I’m 19F and have been questioning my sexuality for many years, never really coming to a solid conclusion, which is fine of course, but I wanted an answer.

For a while I just considered myself unlabelled to make things easier until I “figured it out”. I recently confirmed with myself that I do like girls when I caught feelings for a friend (kill me), which is really liberating and makes me happy to finally be sure about that.

Then for the last few months I’ve been questioning if I even like men. So even though I have figured out part of my sexuality, there is this kind of never ending confusion and fluctuation in my preferences, which is perfectly normal as sexuality is fluid.

I used to hate this part of myself, the constant doubt. But funnily enough, I think I’ve realised that part of the bi experience for some of us is being confused as hell 😂. It’s actually what makes me more certain I am in fact bi, if that makes sense. Because I don’t think a person who is 100% straight or gay would be THIS confused ALL the time. Then again, I suppose they could be, everyone is on their own journey.

So to any other bi or bi-curious person, if you are constantly doubting yourself like I did, there’s a good chance you are bi. And remember you can always change your label if you need to there’s nothing wrong with that.

Hope I helped someone, peace out