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Is it normal to only have celebrity crushes on one sex?
Irl my attraction fluctuates, I've been in love with men and women, ever since I was a kid, but when I look at my celebrity crushes, an overwhelming amount of them are men, much older men to be precise. Is that comphet? I do have occasional crushes on actresses etc, but I feel like my male celebrity crushes are way deeper and more intense (having dreams about them, strong sexual fantasies, you get the idea)
part of me thinks because I've always been attracted to queerness in general, and a lot of the WLW representation feels very performative and catered to the male gaze... a lot of my male celebrity crushes also turned out to be gay irl (Andrew Scott, Jonathan Baily, etc)
This whole situation led me to question my sexuality, maybe I'm just pretending to be Bi?
But then again, I have been attracted to girls since I can remember, all of this is very confusing to me.
Can any of you relate? Any perspective is welcome :)
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