Sometimes, I really hate the fluidity of my sexuality. There are days when I feel like I'm 100% gay, I always was, and I've always known it. That will last for a few weeks, a few months maybe. And then it slowly starts to fade away. Next thing you know, I think I'm bi at most, but I'm almost positive I'm straight. I've always been straight and all of that before was just a confusing phase in my life. No harm, no foul. And then the pendulum swings in the other direction again, and the whole cycle starts again. It seriously takes a toll on me. Can anyone offer any advice to keep me from losing my mind? I know I can't be the only one that goes through this, I just thought that by the age of 35, I'd have this figured out by now.