18f here in canada. i have yet to be in a relationship but am hoping to find someone. i've been told just to wait and the right person will find their way into my life but so far this hasn't really worked. i've just recently over the last year and a bit come to terms with my sexuality so this is all new to me. i'm in uni but meeting people is really hard (especially wlw girls). my type is mainly femmes so i usually can't tell who is into girls and who isn't. i've fallen for a couple straight girls over the years and that obviously hasn't worked out. there was one lesbian but that was more of a situationship than anything.

i feel like everyone around me is in and out of relationships and i'm not really sure what i'm doing wrong. i'm not unattractive nor do have a horrible personality or anything. i would consider myself a pretty friendly, approachable person overall.

any tips? tricks? anything i'm missing? how did you guys meet your partners? (dating apps scare me so i won't exactly take that as a suggestion)