For some reason, I've become very convinced that I'm a lesbian even though I've had a crush on a guy before. I haven't had many crushes in my life, and I've only ever dated one person and she's a girl so I guess it makes sense as to why I'm feeling this way now. I've never really been all that attracted to men, but I still remember having a BIG crush in like middle school on this boy so that must mean I'm bi, right? I just have a strong preference for women. Besides, a real lesbian wouldn't need to question whether or not they were attracted to men. Can someone please just tell me I'm not a lesbian so I can feel normal again? I'm tired of being like this.