Other bi women will know what I’m talking about when I say there’s an anxiety and annoyance about coming out to a straight, male partner. Hell, I’m sure there are bi men who’ve experienced the similar with straight women. In previous relationships when I would come out to a straight male partner, 100% of the time his first response is some shit like, “oh, so three ways are cool?” 😐 Or they start probing about what it was like being with another woman and asking for gory details.

Anyway, I have to come and say that I feel like I found some kind of unicorn. When I came out to my now fiancé a few years ago I was expecting some shit about a three way, but he just flat out accepted it and thanked me for telling him about this big part of me. Like.. like wow. That was it? No bs about bringing in another woman? No questions about my experiences with other women? Just acceptance and love?

It was such a novel and lovely experience and I had to share this coming out win somewhere. 🖤