(21F) i am one of those types of people that want and prefer to have a label, so when times come around that i question my identity, it can be sometimes difficult for me.

long story short, i have a hard time picking whether the bisexual or pansexual label works best for me. and to why that is:

i feel attraction to all genders. it feels a bit limiting identifying as bi knowing that gender isn’t something that would cause me to not feel sexual attraction to anyone. if i feel sexually attracted, i feel sexually attracted, gender wouldn’t play a role into that.

HOWEVER, i find myself usually MORE sexually (and romantically) attracted to men. though, again, in general terms, gender doesn’t determine my sexual attraction. which is why i am having a hard time understanding which label best suits.. without defying its meaning.