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It's just not really easy to define myself...
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Hi guys! I would like to ask something for the people that know themselves better and had similar experiences:

I'm a man. I always liked girls, I would feel attracted both sexually and romantically, so I know I always liked girls, and actually, I had never felt attraction to the same gender, nither romantically nor sexually.

However... I don't know, I'm feeling a great comfort with my guy best friend, because his personality feels just like my personality, and we can both talk about our deepest darkest secrets together with all our trust. But I don't feel any kind of sexual attraction, and this is weird, I don't feel nervous nor with "butterflies" (it sounds cringy, sorry) when being around him like I did with other women. I just feel comfortable and like I really appreciate him.

I must also mention that this could be just... Curiosity, I don't know, and I felt lonely all the time and used to be desperated to be in a relationship with a woman, and this happening right now with only one male even though I've had very important friendships in the past makes me think that I'm just confusing myself and feeling some comfort I couldn't feel with a woman but now I'm feeling with a male friend. This is like the first time I don't really know what I feel towards someone, but I'm more inclined to think I'm just not understanding my feelings during this period and I don't "love" him in that way.

Thank you if you're read it all the way down to here. I would really appreciate some response

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