I (M27) would say that Im only attracted to women (both sexually and romantically), but I also find most sexual things/scenarios arousing. So the same sex aspect to this sexuality would be that if I see another man in a sexual environment I can get horny, but after a long time of self reflecting Ive realized that it isnt because I find that man attractive but just because sex is hot if that makes sense? Like Im attracted to sex and sexual acts. But if we r just considering people then Im only attracted to women. Like a woman doing someing sexual is hot partly because she’s a woman and partly because of the sexual act in and of itself being hot, whereas when a man is doing something sexual I only find the act hot but not the man. This is why it wouldnt feel ”right” calling myself bi, like the sexual attraction to people and to acts feels seperate to me. But I donno, can anyone else relate/know someone who relates? And do you/they call themselves bi or is it more just open-minded/horny straight person?

Thankful for all ur help❤️