Up until the past few months, I (19M) have been fully certain on being straight; all my crushes in middle and high school were women, and I have fantasised about women in both a sexual and romantic way. However recently something has changed and I’ve started having sexual fantasies about men as well. The difference is, I don’t find myself attracted to men physically or romantically, and only really feel that attraction in a purely sexual context. I can imagine myself with a woman in a relationship, and want to end up that way, but I also feel interested in having sex with men, but not going any further with them. I have no idea what to make of this or what it means. The closest thing I could find that might explain it is being Bisexual Heteromantic, but A.) I don’t know if that’s really an actual thing and B.) I haven’t spoken to anyone for a second opinion. It would be super helpful to have another voice weigh in on the matter.