I've used the bi-ace label for years but I don't really feel like it fits anymore.

Calling myself ace feels suffocating and limiting. I as I've discovered more about my sexuality, asexuality just feels like I'm repressing myself.

I don't feel attraction to bodies but I think I feel attraction to people. I definitely feel attraction to people who I have a crush or people who are charismatic. I don't think it's demisexuality because I feel attraction to people I've just met but it's always people who have a reputation of 'everybody loves them' AKA charisma and charm. When I want someone it's because of their vibes but I don't think vibesexual is a thing lol.

I've always been kind of dense about hotness. Never got why people liked this body part or that body part. I don't at all get what's special about genitals beyond them having lots of nerve endings.

Anyway, I'm asking here because no one on the ace subs can tell me what sexual attraction feels like lmao. Hoped I'd find more luck here. Trying to decide if I should stick with bi-ace or just be bi.